Sense of belonging
A child feels a sense of belonging with their parents or caregivers throughout infant stage and beyond. Developing a security relationship that is created upon Trust, accepting, Loving Care, and open and honest. If a parent or caregiver establish lease healthy relationships of belonging, daily routines of going grocery shopping, creating chores, communicating with family and friends are all great examples of daily routines model by parents and caregiver.
Threat of leaving child
Perhaps parents and caregivers need to be mindful of what they say and their actions around children at any age. If a child feels threatened by their parents or caregivers of abandonment these symptoms may cause anxieties, withdrawals from social interaction and even behaviors of acting out. Children often fail to disengage when parents or caregivers I'm not providing sensations of emotion, love, and care. Leaving the child to respond to survival mode instincts rather than passion and caring atmosphere. Some of the action can incur with bullying other students, fighting withdrawal from adult conversations.
Being proactive:
Taking responsibility for my actions and asking appropriate questions to gain knowledge.
Begin with the end in mind:
Overall looking at the big picture rather than make any assumptions with first initial thoughts.
Put first thing first:
Prioritizing things that are important opposed to things I want now
Think win, win:
When applying/support and idea have a positive outlook and attitude
Seek first to understand then to be understood:
Listen more to the person conversation, asking questions
Synergy:
Working together for the common good
Sharpen the saw:
Taking my own perception are the equations to allow productive criticism and alterations.
Below there's a picture of a classroom, see if you can identify me wearing a white t-shirt. Although that I'm confident about my upbringing and myself. There are still some areas that I wish my father that I've been there to support me, understanding growth spurts, puberty, how to treat a lady, daily routines of grooming, attend church, how to treat your wife and what is life all about.
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The Principle of Sowing & Reaping Sow a thought, and you reap an act; Sow an act, and you reap a habit; Sow a habit, and you reap a character; Sow a character, and you reap a destiny. Samuel Smiles
Sean Covey http://www.7habits4teens.com/
